The second day of the district assembly was the day when 193 new elders would be ordained. Each of them was already pastoring a church, or had planted a church while they studied in their 3-5-year Bible college program. For a district with 1,000 organized churches and many more churches that were still working to meet requirements for official organization, having qualified and trained leaders to shepherd these brand new congregations is crucial. Even this large group of new elders is only a portion of the pastors that are needed.Sitting on the floor in the hot and stuffy auditorium, people had been fanning themselves and wiping their brows all day as they held elections, voted on proposals and listened to reports. By 3 p.m. this was all finished and it was time to ordain the elders.
Ten of the candidates at a time were called to the front and they lined up next to the platform. There were two general superintendents and two retired general superintendents standing on the platform next to regional leaders and local elders. (Our denomination has six general superintendents at a time whom we elect to this highest position in the church.) They formed a web of people, all of them with hands laid on the shoulders of the people in front of them. One general superintendent stood over an altar. They called the name of the next new elder in line, who climbed the steps and knelt before the group.
The general superintendent lay his or her hands on the candidate's head and prayed a traditional charge of anointing for ministry. Sometimes the candidate knelt beside a spouse and child. Sometimes, there were two candidates side by side -- a husband and a wife who had both completed their schooling at the same time. Sometimes the candidate was the wife, and her husband simply knelt beside her in support.I think they had gone through about 6 rounds of this before the emotion began to set in for me about what I was seeing.
As a spouse whose husband completed 3 years of seminary just last year, I knew something of the discipline, passion and commitment these people needed to have so they could make it to this day. But I also knew they had to overcome much more than we had: squeezing in their classes and studies around working in the fields or making handicrafts to sell or driving a rickshaw to earn a little money; walking or cycling long distances to a class; studying by the light of a propane lantern late at night; caring for family and pastoring a church. I was amazed at their accomplishment.
I also considered the women kneeling on the platform to be ordained. The district superintendent had told me that we are the first church in the country to ordain women leaders. In the culture, women are not traditionally seen as decision-makers or leaders. These women would face an uphill climb in their culture to be recognized as pastors and leaders. Yet they had heard the call of God and answered.It was all enough to bring me to tears. I had to struggle to see through them to focus my camera and continue capturing the faces of these strong and courageous new leaders as they each took turns climbing the platform steps.
At the end of the night, everyone sat side by side with crossed legs on the floor and shared communion. Men and women walked carefully between the people to pass out wafers of bread and small cups of juice. In three languages -- Portuguese, Spanish and Bengali -- leaders led the Lord's Supper. I sat in a corner with some of the women.
Following the service, some of the women near me in the corner stopped to talk with me -- only the third time this had happened during my time in Bangladesh. We couldn't say much, but we were all grinning at one another and oohing and aahing over a gift I was given from the district for my participation in the event. One of them asked me, "Husband?" I nodded and smiled. In another moment, one of them had stuck a small black dot on my forehead, between my eyebrows, and we all laughed. Another held up her cell phone, which was nice and shiny, so I could examine my new decoration in the phone's reflective surface. One woman turned me around so she could place flowers in my braid. I sensed the cultural barriers cracking some more.
A woman, gazing up at me, observed, "Tall." I laughed because I was indeed taller than basically every person I had met. Since they knew the word "husband," I repeated it and then lifted my hand another foot above my head. "Ooohhh," they all said. We laughed some more.
When it was clear nothing more could be said, one of the woman said, "Good night" and ushered the others out the door. I was sorry that there was no further way we could communicate.
The next day our foreign group made the long van trek back to the central part of the country so we could catch our flights home. I wasn't ready. There was so much I hadn't seen, so many people I hadn't talked to and so many pictures I hadn't taken. Everything in the north was beautiful and picturesque, from the rice fields to the street-side markets, from the mud-cracked huts in the small villages to the children running and splashing in the muddy ponds. The lasting impression I will carry with me from Bangladesh is the hardworking, industrious nature of the people as each person is busy growing or carving or transporting things for sale.I also will remember the man sitting in a chair outside the auditorium by a door where he could see and hear the events inside, because there was no more room inside the auditorium. He stopped me as I passed and said, "Pray for us, sister." So I plan to do that as I remember my time in that beautiful country.
To see more pictures and read more about these events, check out my articles and a video at www.eurasiaregion.org, and www.engagemagazine.com.






